Perspective
By michelle | May 11, 2010
My husband recently decided to spoil me and he had someone come to our home and clean for six hours.
While this was happening, I took the kids out of the house until resting time. As I pulled into the driveway, I could feel the excitement rising up inside of me.
I couldn’t wait to see the clean house!
However, what I found was not quite what I had expected. The areas that I had asked the cleaning person to focus on didn’t look much better than they had when I had left. I had specifically asked for the blinds to be “wiped down”- they were covered in dust and fingerprints. They needed more than just a light dusting, but that is all that they got.
After surveying the job done, I realized I could have accomplished that result in a mere two hours.
I was disappointed.
I was frustrated.
In my anger, I started cleaning up the spots that had been missed. The spots that really needed to be done.
I carefully cleaned the blinds. Dusting and then cleaning each wooden slat until it was gleaming in the sunlight, feeling resentful that I had spent money on things I normally do myself.
And that is when it hit me: if the cleaning person hadn’t come, I never would have cleaned the areas that needed it the most.
I would have kept maintaining the house without ever taking the time to clean the areas that aren’t in the forefront.
Even though I was upset at first, in the quiet moments as I cleaned the blinds, God showed me how important it is to be thankful for all things.
I am thankful that the major areas of the house were cleaned by someone other than myself.
I am thankful that I was able to deep clean some areas.
I am thankful for my dear husband who loves me and gives me gifts that help me and improve my life, even if I don’t realize it at first.
I am most thankful for a loving, patient God who reveals such great truths to me in moments of frustration.
With a change in my perspective I was able to see the gift that I had been given.
I am truly thankful.
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5 Comments
Jenni on May 11, 2010 at 4:58 pm.
Awesome “Pollyanna” way of looking at it. I would have been really mad as well…and I don’t think I would have gotten to the point that you did; but you have made me think and reconsider the next time something like that happens to me.
Pres. kathy on May 11, 2010 at 4:58 pm.
What a wonderful gift from your husband!
grandma on May 11, 2010 at 5:13 pm.
Lesson: check references and experience
Sorry for the suggestion though I knew that she was a trustworthy person and certainly needed the $$…thankful you were able to turn it around…
Michelle on May 11, 2010 at 5:55 pm.
Don’t be sorry! I know you were trying to do right by us and by her. Oh well
Michelle Mowat on May 12, 2010 at 5:13 am.
I can definitely understand your frustration, but that is awesome that God could help you see to change your attitude! What a blessing.